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Affection. "We choose a partner hoping for a source of affection, love, and support, and, more than ever, a best friend. Finding such a partner is a wonderful and ecstatic experience-the stage of illusion in relationships, it has been called." [2] But, some people "...have expectations which no one person is ever going to be able to fulfill - no matter how kind, understanding and loving an individual they turn out to be."[3] So, what we really need here is balance and most of all communication because through communication we than will be able to travel even deeper into the other person, finding out more about them and what their dreams are, as we let time pass us by while they give each other a chance to grow. We all want it and hope to have that very thing, affection, when we are involved in a relationship; for guys at times, knowing just the right way a lady wants that affection can be difficult in the beginning until he is at peace with her to where he longs for the groth between the two to begin. But, what exactly is it that women describe affection to really be? Well, according to Deanna Schwrtz, in her book entitled "How to please a woman...", she goes into detail just what it is a women is looking for when she says:
FOOTNOTES
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How To Please a Woman In and Out of Bed: A Guide for Keeping
Your Woman and Your Sanity |
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| Reminders |
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"The manner in
which we speak is exceedingly important" if ever we are willing
to let each other grow. |
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| Word of Advise |
| "We can't give trust away easily in any circumstance. It needs to be earned. But it can't be earned if we do not take risks." |
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"Be continually loving your wife. The verb itself, in the new testament, seems best understood to express a willing love. Not a love of passion, not a love of emotion but it is a love of choice. It is a covenantal kind of love. Colossians 3:19 could be translated 'keep on loving'." |
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"Marriage is not a contract. Contracts can be broken. Marriage is a covenant." |
