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So many couples think that when a relationship starts out good that it will always remain good but I ask "is that true?". Through my own journey and understanding through the many testimonies I heard and experiences, that even I myself have been in, there are not always those peaceful and perfect harmony moments. The longer we take the time to know the person the more we seem to discover about who they really are and how they are able to handle situations, no matter how rough or easy they may be, through out the journey of life. What matters most is not the changes or differences your partner might have or be going through in life but are you willing to be there with them as they go through those changes. As John Calvin once quoted, "man changes daily but God never changes." And, also a friend one time said while we were speaking on the phone that, "through these many years of marriage I have been married to several ladies". The question you might be asking is "was he married to several ladies" or was it that "his lady has gone through many changes and he was there with her during those changes". The second question is the correct answer. His lady went through several changes and he was there during those changes. It shocked me to at first when I heard him describe that story to me but it made perfect since in the end. A good Bible verse to go along with this story is "he who endures to the end will be saved" which can simply be put into marital since that if we are willing to endure through all those rough moments that come our way our marriage will always be saved. If you honestly do love your partner, be there for them as they also will be there for you and keep enduring till the end because marriage is an everlasting thing not a temporary thing. Treat your partner respectfully just as you also would like to be treated. FOOTNOTES
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How To Please a Woman In and Out of Bed: A Guide for Keeping
Your Woman and Your Sanity |
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"The manner in
which we speak is exceedingly important" if ever we are willing
to let each other grow. |
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| Word of Advise |
| "We can't give trust away easily in any circumstance. It needs to be earned. But it can't be earned if we do not take risks." |
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